Ya’ll, I just can’t hold it in anymore.
It seems our society has forgotten the difference between a period ( . ) and a question mark ( ? ).
A period ENDS a STATEMENT.
A question mark ASKS for something.
In the past few weeks, I have experienced people having an issue differentiating between these two punctuation marks. Some have been online, but all too many have been live and in person. Today, when a young homeschooler posted a funny meme meant to put a chuckle in someone’s day, her post was followed with a ton of comments very rudely offering suggestions on how to fix the situation being jested about in the post.
She didn’t ask for advice. She wasn’t seeking help or solutions. How do I know? Because there was NO QUESTION MARK. The meme merely made a statement, a comical statement about one of the many trials of motherhood. She wasn’t requesting help to resolve whatever behavior led to the meme. In fact, IT WASN’T EVEN A MEME ABOUT HER. It was some graphic she pulled off a meme site because…. IT WAS FUNNY. Any mother would have had a good chuckle and scrolled away.
I have posted funny anecdotes on my personal Facebook page (or had conversations personally with others), in which I shared a trying day. When I do this, I am NEVER looking for suggestions on how to NOT have a trying day. IF I feel I could use some advice I will ask for it, using…. dun…dun….dun… a QUESTION. Most times, I am throwing up the mom gang sign and saying “Hey, other mom friends, other wife friends, other sister friends, other humans-who-have-to-deal-with-people friends… guess what, sometimes people suck, I feel ya, high five… we got this… let’s laugh.” PERIOD. END OF STATEMENT.
So please help me understand why it seems everyone wants to jump in and fix what they perceive to be wrong, when no one is asking for help/advice? (<–see there is a question, feel free to leave a comment and answer THIS question)
I can promise you, you do not have the whole story in that meme or post or 5 minute conversation. There was more to it. I also promise that whatever the situation was….
I handled it. I just didn’t feel the need to bore you with that part of the story.
Oh, and while we are on that bunny trail…. I am done justifying HOW I handled it. I did it my way and that’s that. (<–please note the specific use of a period here.)
People…. PEOPLE… why can’t we just support each other? Hug, high five, throw up the Mockingjay sign and show some sympathy, some empathy, some compassion and IF YOU CAN’T….
take that little finger of yours and scroll on by.